It's the Rebirth Era

When I allow myself to sit in my grief, I give myself permission to feel the full extent of the love I have — and the significance of the loss.

It’s interesting to observe yourself on the threshold of change. Rebirth. To hold two truths at once:

The truth that I am so excited for the future — and the truth that to step fully into that future, I must honor the parts of me that can’t come with me.

The more I participate in my healing, the more I step into my full potential and deepen my relationship with myself. When I let myself feel lit up by my dreams and desires, the vision becomes clear: every day, I am bringing my dreams into reality.

It is remarkable, and I fall in love with myself because I am creating a reality that fully nourishes me and honors me.

And yet, I grieve the version of me that settled for less.

I hold and honor the version of me who lived on half-truths, half-love, half-effort. One foot in the life I truly wanted, one foot in the life I thought I had to settle for.

You know you’re on the threshold of great change when you choose to participate fully in the reality you dream of. When you fully commit to the life you want, that is a remarkable transformation.

It’s this deep sense of longing, trust, and knowing: You can have what you want simply because you want it, because you are innately worthy of it.

And so, there is grief for every moment you once felt unworthy. For the times you played small just to fit in, to belong, to be loved.

There comes a moment when you decide to commit to yourself completely. To love yourself fully. To grieve that she — the old you—had to learn her worth through heartache and longing for love that couldn't water her, the words that never reached her, spaces she outgrew.

Can you imagine a reality where you are purely, fully deserving of everything you want, simply because you choose to show up fully as yourself?

Where you never had to shrink.Where you never had to be less because you were afraid of being too much. You deserved more than just getting by, more than always dreaming of something more.

There’s a moment when you cross that threshold, and you realize you were the one in the way of your fulfillment.

The world mirrors this truth back to us in powerful ways. It’s hard to ignore pain and suffering — we feel the weight of the collective, especially as intuitive women, as womb holders, as witnesses to the unseen.

But there comes a point when you can witness pain and hold deep reverence and compassion, because you know it so well. And because you know there is life beyond the pain.

There is always new life available. A new life is ready to rise through you at any time. But so often, we must pass through the fire to feel reborn.

I’ve spoken about this before: there are two kinds of burning. The burning that comes when your nervous system is activated — when you’re in fight-or-flight, stressed, and bracing. And then there is a deeper burning — the simmer of your heart’s longing. The burning of your true desire that eventually grows stronger than your fear.

That is the threshold. The space between living in an old, false reality and stepping into the reality of your own creation.

It can break your heart. And it sets you free.

I hope you choose the freedom of your own heart. I hope you find places where you feel safe enough to let it open. I hope you find people who honor you, who hold your heart with care, so you never again feel like you have to be small to be held.

May you remember you never had to shrink to belong. May you know your essence is enough — more than enough — to attract the life you are expanding into.

The labor pains are real, love. And they are absolutely part of the process.

Ready to Step Into Your Own Rebirth?

If these words stirred something in you, this is your invitation to remember what your body already knows:

You are worthy of more.

Your womb is ready to soften.

Your dreams are ready to be born.

Explore Womb Healing, Hypnobirthing, or a gentle session with me — your next chapter is waiting.

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All My Love,

Jill B, CHt

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